Nuance In Everything

 Nuance In Everything. 

There is a nuance in everything. Which means not all situations are good or bad. There is always a grey area in most things and problems. Thinking things are black or white. Will make you miss out on a lot of complexity. 

You have to remember there is a reason why people behave a certain way. In a fight most people believe they are the hero. That is just the Human mind we all have to deal with. 

Sometimes when in an argument, people have trauma. And what they do is project that fear. So next time you are in an argument don't let it upset you. 

A huge argument can de-escalate by talking in a calm tone. If you're constantly getting yelled at, for where you smoke your cigarettes. And you feel like you're just getting picked on. 

The nuance in this situation could be that they lost a home because of a lit cigarette. So now they can be completely justifiable. So really think about possible grey areas. Also always give people the benefit of the doubt.