Top 5 Stages on Heartache

 Top 5 Stages on Heartache

The Beginning:

Loving someone in the beginning is magical. You're connected with them so strongly. You know what they will say or thinking about. Because you know them fully. Their pain is your pain. Their sorrow hurts you as well. And when they smile they bring you great joy. They're apart of you and vice versa. 

The Honeymoon Phase:

The Honeymoon Phase is like heaven on Earth. At work they are on your mind. When you are in bed. Or burning the midnight oil at night. They run through your mind like a mighty river. The love you have for them is intense. Spiritually you feel connected. And their love for you boost your confidence. 

Growing Apart:

This stage is the worst. Their kisses don't feel the same. You argue about little insignificant things. Things you never would have argued about in the stages above that are written down. Somehow how you know the relationship is done. Trying to recreate the spark does not work. And then you break up. 

The Breakup:

When you break up and you truly loved this person it feels like a part of you died with the relationship. Joy fades away. And sorrow fill your heart. And it really does physically hurt. Some want to disappear but you must stay strong. Remember you can and will love again if you open up your heart to someone you click with and connect with. Keep your head up. 

Years After:

Sometimes you still think of them. And it hurts because your love was sincere and genuine. And you really truly miss them. Sometimes after the years go by you barely think of them. They're just an old memory. And you forget you ever loved them. They are now just a distance memory in the mind. And it doesn't hurt anymore.